A quickie about fetishes.

A friend posted on Facebook how a customer said she wasn't hot because she didn't have tattoos or "mods".  She thought it odd that people with tats say they don't "need approval" but they think she does.  One of her friends posted how he did think you were hot just not his fetish.

Interesting way to look at "body mods", I know a fair bit about fetishes and I guess that not wanting to date a woman because she didn't have the "right" look could qualify as a fetish.  Like most people, I have my own desires and of course like most people I think they are perfectly normal.

That's the key, the person with that fetish doesn't think of them as a fetish.  They don't understand why you don't have the same desires.  The last I heard the most common fetish (in heterosexual men) in the US was stockings on women.  Obviously the definition of "fetish" isn't that extreme.

One person might like tattoos and piercings on people and some people might like for their significant other to wear a particular color.  And again, if the two or more people are all consenting adults then whatever I or anyone else thinks about their particular fetish don't really matter.